I wanted to share a conversation which I made with a rare open and honest New Yorker. I told her that I found very interesting that many people who has never been to NY (and even they are not Americans )are very protective of NY and they never wanna here the reality .Only wanna hear and accept the advirtesement side of the city. She said something which was I think makes a lot of sense. She said ‘it is because they all heard the saying which is if you could make in NY ,you could make anywhere else. Therefore they somehow take any other side of the reality unacceptable somehow.